Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.Christian culture is like any other in that we develop truisms that we accept without verifying.There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.“You have an important responsibility in choosing not only whom you will date but also whom you will marry. “I would admonish you to maintain an eternal perspective.Make certain that the marriage in your future is a temple marriage.This is a time to set your sights high, expect the best, and become all that our Heavenly Father intends for you to become.
Here are some questions you may want to ask yourself: Have fun and be fun on dates as you get to know others. Some of the most fun dates can be as simple as cooking a meal together. You can observe and get to know the other person better by doing activities than by just sitting and watching movies.
Myth #1: "God has one woman picked out for you to marry.
You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.
The intentional man repeatedly and constantly goes first and takes on all of the risk of rejection.
He always lets the girl know where he stands so she feels secure and isn’t left guessing.